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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-04 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2923 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2923 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-01-05 06:30 am (UTC)(link)
I have a lot of depressed &/or spoonie tumblr-friends, and the sj-wank (pro- more than anti-, maybe, though anti-sj types can be really horrid) gets scary.

Could you NOT yell at my profoundly ill friend online over minor crap, thanks?

There was a blog that pretended to be "fandom" but also spent a lot of time ranting about their personal idea of how neurodiversity worked, which seemed uneducated to me, and they would scream about things that I thought were just stupid.

And then they went after a friend of mine. Who had an autistic brother. And is a spoonie. Because she used a word they didn't consider politically correct.

And due to my own psychiatric history, I don't think their definitions were actually even close to sensible or right.

I don't have the skillz to track them down, but I kind of wanted to say, "I'm going to call your mom."

At some point I had to just back away from the tarbaby of engaging with them.

:(
lb_lee: M.D. making a shocked, confused face (serious thought)

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-01-05 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
YUP. I'm still astounded THAT I haven't gotten trolled yet, despite being open about my history and weirdness.

Well, except for that one time about Foreskin Man. But that was SPECIAL.

My general rule with tumblr is, whenever I see something that makes me mad, I go, "Wait. Is this worth having an argument on tumblr for? With all its UI issues?"

The answer is pretty much always no. It's like trying to have an intellectual debate entirely on sticky notes, outside on a windy day.