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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-06 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2925 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2925 ⌋

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Re: why is body shaming of some groups okay but not others

(Anonymous) 2015-01-07 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Anon put it well.

http://fandomsecrets.dreamwidth.org/1142341.html?thread=804594245#cmt804594245
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Re: why is body shaming of some groups okay but not others

[personal profile] siofrabunnies 2015-01-07 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
Eh, I don't really see it as broadcasting that. I mean, this girl is allowed to tell people her emotions and opinions. It's not like she's shouting "ew, short guys!" or even "I hate short guys." She's saying "I don't like when the guy I liked has something I don't like". It's not like she can force herself to become attracted to short guys, or make him taller, so now she has to lose a crush, which is disappointing.

I mean, it's teenagerish, but I don't think she's doing anything morally wrong.

Would it be different if she found out he smoked? I find smoking just gross, and don't get it at all, and any attraction I had to someone goes away completely if I find out they're a smoker. I get disappointed when that happens, because I lose that crush, which sucks. I'm not rude about it, and the only thing I ask of them is to not smoke around me. But I think it's okay to say, completely anonymously, "MFW I find out the guy I liked smokes." Is that okay?
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Re: why is body shaming of some groups okay but not others

[personal profile] siofrabunnies 2015-01-07 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
I think I'm way over-invested in this, ha. I don't actually care, but I guess I just feel like debating.