[ SECRET POST #2932 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2932 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

For me, it just hurts because of everything I associate with that word. (My dad not being able to get work and the people who would have gladly killed us if they could have gotten away with it.) It's not something I can brush off easily.

And I just find it demeans something that actually matters -- it's demeaning to people who have actually experienced racism or homophobia or sexism to call someone that for stupid fandom BS. In a way that calling someone a bitch isn't. To me, at least.

[sarillia]

I guess this is just another one of those things that makes me weird. Sometimes I have an issue with something that other people don't see as a problem at all. Seems only fair for me to allow others to think I'm being problematic even though I disagree with them. All I can do is listen to people who are affected by these issues and do my best to avoid doing harm. As long as I'm confident that I'm doing this, it really doesn't bother me to have people claim I'm being sexist or whatever. I just say "I disagree and if you actually want to discuss this then I'll tell you why".

But again, I realize that I'm weird and it's not that easy for other people. It just sometimes surprises me to be reminded exactly how unusual it seems I am.

[(Anonymous)]

DA. Don't forget that with rampant callout posts, being called transphobic or racist can get you blackballed and have people harassing you. Even if it's so much as not agreeing with whatever non-canon headcanons they're screaming is canon or a ton of other things which are now deemed "problematic"

Also they dox people at any chance, so it is a lot worse than just being called a bitch. Now if you say something stupid because you were tired, you could deal with fifty people in your inbox telling you to kill yourself, people revealing your address, or a call out post that consists of such awful things as "this person said dumb once ATTACK THEM."

[sarillia]

I definitely understand being upset about this stuff. Harassment should always be taken seriously.

Where there's a disconnect for me is when people get seriously insulted by a general post saying that all people who ship a certain thing are homophobic or something. Or when it's limited to a single, short conversation.

[raspberryrain]

It can be more like when a friend of mine got her tumblr dogpiled by a swarm of people who got upset with her for using a phrase--"mild autism," I think it was.

That phrase was unacceptable in their circle (for some weird adolescent version of political reasons), so they kept reblogging her post and calling her out for it. So her activity feed was full of people saying she was terrible.

It wasn't directly fandom related, but one of the leaders had a blog that was supposedly "fandom."

While this was going on, I really felt the temptation to doxx them, just to make them stop. Of course, I didn't, and eventually they found something else to scream at. But it was really painful to see.

So, yeah, depending on what tumblr blogs you run into, "fandom" can be pretty bad.

[kittenmommy]

Now if you say something stupid because you were tired, you could deal with fifty people in your inbox telling you to kill yourself, people revealing your address, or a call out post that consists of such awful things as "this person said dumb once ATTACK THEM."

And yet they claim to be against bullying and are constantly calling people bullies!