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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-13 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2932 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2932 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-01-14 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
Except if you phrase it as "Hey, you realize the way you ship X/Y is unhealthy, right?" it's very unlikely whoever you're saying that to is going to drop it, because you're attacking how they ship something.

How about "Hey, you realize this aspect of X/Y can come across as abusive/manipulative to some people, right?" instead. Same message, only now you're not a douche.

(Anonymous) 2015-01-14 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, but if it deals with controlling and systematically cutting off their contact with others and/or financial independence, that's not COMING ACROSS AS something. That IS something. And people get away with it in real life because of shit like that fucking "it can COME ACROSS as manipulative/abusive!"

da

(Anonymous) 2015-01-14 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
But at the same time, it's a fictional ship, not real life. Most people who ship things that are fucked up are well aware that they're fucked up and don't need other people to point it out for them.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2015-01-14 06:31 am (UTC)(link)
" Most people who ship things that are fucked up are well aware that they're fucked up and don't need other people to point it out for them."

hahahahahahahahaha oh you're cute in how you believe the best of fandom.

You seem to have never spoken to people who like 99% of BL.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2015-01-14 07:41 am (UTC)(link)
I'm presuming BL refers to "Boys' love." At least that's what urban dictionary tells me:

In Japan, BL is the "modern" term for Shounenai, deffinition meaning "Boys love."

In which case, you seem to have serious issues with slash based on similar comments I've seen made (with your style of writing as well).

You might want to take care of that before you start accusing fandom of anything. Just an FYI.

(Anonymous) 2015-01-14 06:58 am (UTC)(link)
That doesn't change the fact that your original wording is calling the SHIPPER unhealthy, not the SHIP. And there's a fucking huge difference.

If you want to change someone's mind, calling their very being "unhealthy" is not the way to do it.

(Anonymous) 2015-01-14 03:45 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm sure pretty much everyone is aware that their noncon fic or whatever wouldn't fly in reality, so helpfully reminding them how fucked up their OTP is really demeaning