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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-23 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2942 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2942 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Marvel's Agents of Shield)


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[Maleficent]


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[Harry Potter]


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[Stargate Atlantis]


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[Five Nights at Freddy's]


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08. [ SPOILERS for this ]



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09. [ SPOILERS for Dragon Age: Inquisition ]



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10. [ SPOILERS for One Way Heroics ]



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11. [ SPOILERS for Homestuck ]



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12. [ WARNING for dub-con ]

(Agents of Shield)


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13. [ WARNING for underage ]
http://i.imgur.com/DKM7EXF.png
[Girlish Grimoire: Littlewitch Romanesque, linked for (animated) porn, underage]














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Re: So... Manslamming

[personal profile] a_potato 2015-01-24 03:43 am (UTC)(link)
They really are kind of...missing the point. Because yeah, the whole "spreading" thing isn't about being able to touch people; it's about comfort, and about the fact that there's a much lower standard of "propriety" for men than there is for women. So, these people are busy focusing on the behavior itself and thinking it's a form of overt intimidation while completely ignoring the actual issue, which is that men and women are conditioned to behave differently (not that there aren't some creepy guys who purposely get touchy-feely and invade women's space, because oooooh they soooo exist. But most men are just sitting the way they're used to sitting, and they've been told their whole lives that it's perfectly acceptable to sit that way).

They don't seem to have gotten that sexism (and any kind of systemic prejudice, really) is propped up by subconscious bias. And it's really, really dangerous and counterproductive to start thinking that every prejudiced person is a cardboard cut-out villain who knows and owns the fact that s/he's prejudiced.
Edited 2015-01-24 03:44 (UTC)