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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-26 07:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #2945 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2945 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Not a Harem Heaven, It's a Yandere Hell]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[In the Flesh]


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[Hudson Leick as Callisto in Xena, Warrior Princess]


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[Plebcomics]


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[Great British Bake Off]


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[Captain America: The First Avenger]


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[Binan Koukou Chikyuu Bouei-bu LOVE!]


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[Queen]













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 048 secrets from Secret Submission Post #421.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: tw child abuse

(Anonymous) 2015-01-27 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
She's a survivor of physical and emotional abuse. Her father was a physically and emotionally abusive alcoholic and her mother was emotionally abusive in that she was very controlling. :( So while those sound like good recs I don't think they'd help my friend out as she wasn't sexually abused (far as she knows anyway, she's told me many times she doesn't have a good handle on her childhood memories).
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Re: tw child abuse

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-01-27 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
Hmmm, let's see. Physical abusive and alcoholism aren't my bailiwicks, but I might still have some useful stuff, let me see...

'Toxic Parents' by Susan Forward is pretty good, and I don't think it much matters whether you're extroverted or not. It mostly focuses on how to handle the parents themselves, especially if you're still struggling with whether to keep a relationship with them or not.

Some folks I know swear by Survivor to Thriver: Manual and workbook for adult survivors of child abuse who want to move-on with life, but I haven't used it myself so can't vouch. On the plus side, it's free!

And then there's Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men, which is mostly intended for partners, but might be useful for figuring out the father's thought process and why he does what he does. Worth a shot, and the PDF is a little buggy formatting wise but still perfectly readable.

Hope that helps!

--Rogan

Re: tw child abuse

(Anonymous) 2015-01-27 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
I'll propose these to her and see what she makes of them. Got my fingers crossed, thank you!
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Re: tw child abuse

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-01-27 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
No problem! Glad to be useful, sorry that I don't have more.