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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-29 06:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #2948 ]


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(Anonymous) 2015-01-30 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
Arguably though, the majority of people with rape fantasies have fantasies of being raped rather than being the rapist.

And that, IMO, does say something about how women especially internalize their sexuality as something that they need someone else to force out of them for them to be able to express it.

So no, clearly having a rape fantasy =/= rapist (or even condoning the RL act etc.) but it does have other RL impact that could, potentially, be to their detriment, either in sexual ways or purely in how they view themselves in the social hierarchy.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 05:09 am (UTC)(link)
I agree with everything you've said.

Personally, I don't have a problem with any individuals who have rape fantasies, but I'm bothered with overall trends I see in say, porn or romance fiction. But it's hard to criticize those trends without people taking it personally.

And I do think the prevalence of the popularity of male on female rape and the dominant man/submissive woman paradigm is a problem. I have yet to meet a sexually submissive man who is not full of shame about his desires/considers himself a pussy etc. It's pretty sad.