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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-01-03 07:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #363 ]


⌈ Secret Post #363 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Posting for Liz, who has been kidnapped by aliens again.

Happy 1 year of existing, f!s!

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 50 secrets from Secret Submission Post #052.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 ] broken links, 0 not!secrets, 0 not!fandom, [ 1 ] personal attack.
Next Secret Post: Tomorrow, Friday, January 4th, 2008.
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

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(Anonymous) 2008-01-04 03:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I went through all 8 pages of comments to see if anyone at ALL said something kind to you. They didn't. I wasn't surprised and I figure you won't read this, but if you do-- I, at least, understand. If I'm still wasting my time in fandom five-ten years from now when I should be starting my own family and making an actual life for myself, I honestly believe that someone needs to slap me upside the head and make me get a grip. It's not all about me and my selfish enjoyment, other people, flesh and blood and face-to-face, they need my attention too.

Even with all the technology that pervades our everyday lives, there's still an actual world out there and you can't live in it if your head's constantly stuck in fantasy. It's fun in moderation, and don't get me wrong when I've had nothing else going I've spent days entirely absorbed in something, but I'm young and irresponsible now. I can balance RL and fandom to an extent, but sometimes both can suffer for it. Living one life fully instead of multiple lives poorly is nothing to be ashamed of. Some people can balance it. But there's nothing wrong with not.

I wish you luck.

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[identity profile] aprilechidna5.livejournal.com 2008-01-04 04:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes. Because, OF COURSE, my entire life revolves around fandom. Of course noone in fandom couldn't possibly be doing it as a way to enjoy something, AND have time to have a family, and friends, and other adult things. I'm sure that some people can balance a family, and friends, and a small hobby online. Really. That's like saying in 10 years if you're still reading, you shouldn't be because OH! It's not related to having a family and friends and a 'life' so it's wrong now you're older.

I'm going to get yelled at for this, huh? *debates as to whether to even submit*