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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-31 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2950 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2950 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think I'm better than anyone else, I am not perfect or free from harmful attitudes. I never said I was.

And I feel like everything I am saying is being purposely misread to make it seem worse than it is, and you keep focusing on the dream aspect even though I keep saying that no one can help having a dream. The dream doesn't matter. The whole idea is that fantasies should be looked at critically. No, simply having a thought or a fantasy doesn't oppress anyone, but fixating on a fantasy that revolves around detrimental attitudes can strengthen them. This is a real thing that we can see happen and that's been recorded.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
Fixating on the fantasy that you know what other people are allowed to think and should be allowed to police that can definitely lead to detrimental attitudes. One of them is called fascism. You should maybe stop and think about the worrying tendencies you are showing.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 02:47 am (UTC)(link)
Are you not currently telling people what they should be allowed to think?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
Nope, I'm telling you *not* to tell other people what to think. And offering you some helpful advice: check your totalitarian impulses before they lead you astray.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
But that's the thing, that's exactly what I have been saying and doing all along: telling people to look at their impulses and to check them if necessary. And instead, it's been taken in a completely different way, despite me saying multiple times that I think thoughts and dreams are fine. It's indulging in harmful fantasies that isn't.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
Be the change you want to see. Stop inventing things to demonize about OP and other people. Fight your totalitarian impulses. OP had a dream and it ended there. The only one indulging in potentially harmful fantasies is you. Check yourself.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
Are you taking the piss at me?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
No. You're displaying worrisome traits and I think you should work on them instead of policing what goes on in other people's heads. True change begins within. The only person in this thread displaying any tendency to let their fantasies turn harmful is you. Be the change you want to see.