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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-07 04:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #2957 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2957 ⌋

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Re: How do you reject people?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-07 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, do yourself and him a favor and don't try to sugarcoat it just to spare his feelings, as tempting as that might be. But honestly, it sounds like you're overthinking this if you haven't even been on a date with him. Going on a handful of dates doesn't mean you're exclusive.

You want to go on a date with him? Then go and have fun! Has he broken down and confessed that he wants you to be the mother of his children? Gently tell him that whoa, you like him but you're not ready to be in a serious relationship at this point. You'd like to hang out and go on dates, but you want to keep things very, very, VERY slow.

If you respect this guy and he's an adult, then realize you're not responsible for his actions, nor should you try to anticipate the future just to protect him from potential harm. Be honest with him and let HIM decide whether or not he wants to take the risk of dating you.