[ SECRET POST #2960 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2960 ⌋

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Comments

Re: How was your day?

[philstar22]

Right. Ugh. Because people totally choose who they are attracted to. And people attracted to both genders are attracted to everyone of both genders and can totally pick from everyone when choosing a partner. So many nos.

And what gets me is the way men who are okay with bisexual woman are made out to be the good guys. In some ways they scare me more personally because I always expect to be fetishized by straight men. Sure they're okay with a bi woman. Then they'll ask for a threesome and make it all about two hot girls being together to turn them on.

I'm attracted to who I'm attracted to. Whether that person is male or female, straight gay or bi, I'm attracted to them. Not every single person in the world. And if I want to be in a poly relationship that is a completely separate issue from my bisexuality.

Basically, you really can't win.

Re: How was your day?

[(Anonymous)]

Hmm, reading the article and your comment, I guess I've been very lucky. None of my straight male friends or dates have ever reacted like that to my bisexuality. The one time I had a threesome with a guy and a (bi) girl it was the girl's idea... I did have a group of random guys in the street invite themselves when they saw me with a woman, but that was after she had tried to say we were lesbians to get them to leave us alone.

Re: How was your day?

[philstar22]

I've had men only express interest in me when they find out I'm bisexual. Like it was clear they were thinking I'm not hot enough on my own, but with another girl involved I'm suddenly worthy of their attention.

I like the idea of threesomes, but I think I'd probably only ever participate in one with two guys because I'd be too nervous that with two women the guy would make it all about him. I'm not somebody's fetish.

But I think part of it for me is that I've only recently realized that I'm bi and also because I really don't at all fit society's beauty standards, so I have self confidence issues and kind of a lack of people interested in me anyway. So this is kind of new for me and I'm kind of gun shy anyway.

Re: How was your day?

[(Anonymous)]

Ugh, that sucks. To be clear, I wasn't doubting your experiences - I was just saying I've had good ones. I'm pretty sure what you're saying is pretty common and I just happen to hang out with open-minded guys who know many queer people.

I hope things get better for you both in the confidence department and getting more comfortable with your bisexuality *hugs*

Re: How was your day?

[were_lemur]

You know what totally needs to be a thing? All-Girl Threesomes. No pervy male gaze allowed. *nods*

Re: How was your day?

[(Anonymous)]

Wait, it's not a thing? Since when?

Re: How was your day?

[(Anonymous)]

That's definitely a thing.