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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-22 03:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #2972 ]


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Re: Oscar Red Carpet

(Anonymous) 2015-02-23 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
How many guys are raised to be in competition with other guys leading to violence and bullying? How often does everywhere PRAISE this thing?

How many girls are taught that men are violent dangerous animals? that will harm you irreparably if you allow them to?

How many guys are taught that women are snakes with tits who only value you as a utility, and the only way to be a real man is not not let them control by trapping you into a relationship? and how much media seems to bear this out?

I don't mean to get all MRA up in here, but people particularly young people being shitty to people of all types is just a thing that happens. This does not mean that people hate people because of their genders, People do not like, by and large, anyone who is not of some personal value to them. Their perceived values do seem to change depending on gender, but this dislike, disinclination to be kind, is not hatred and is not unique to women.

And I do not think a woman who is in a job where they are required to ask about the fashion side of another woman job is doing it because of hatred or even dislike. I think to assume that is to show the start of a shocking persecution complex.