[ SECRET POST #2978 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2978 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Holy crap, you guys

[feotakahari]

"Obviously, there've been times I had it coming--Hell, I had it coming in the suicide thread last night!"

Also, the next person to say I'm heterosexual gets to hear my lengthy fantasies. This is a threat, not a promise.

Re: Holy crap, you guys

[(Anonymous)]

This is a threat, not a promise.

Doesn't it make more sense the other way around? Just saying it's a threat means you probably won't go through with it...do you not want to go through with it?

Re: Holy crap, you guys

[(Anonymous)]

No, I think she's more saying it will be a bad thing instead of a good thing, like it would be a promise if they were something we would enjoy reading, but its a threat, so hypothetically we wouldn't enjoy reading them.

Re: Holy crap, you guys

[feotakahari]

"I'm not straight! See, I fantasize about sucking cock!" is one step removed from "I'm not male! See, I have boobs!", and only slightly less reductionist.

Re: Holy crap, you guys

[(Anonymous)]

na

I don't understand how this comment follows the one you replied to.

Re: Holy crap, you guys

[feotakahari]

Um, oops. Sorry.

I was just trying to explain why I don't really want to trot out my sexual fantasies as proof I'm not straight.

Re: Holy crap, you guys

[(Anonymous)]

new anon to this thread

Apparently I've missed a lot because I haven't been here in a long time but what is your sexuality that it caused people to get all upset at you because of it?

Re: Holy crap, you guys

[(Anonymous)]

as far as I can follow this, people aren't getting upset at feo's sexuality as such; they're getting upset because they think feo is a heterosexual demiromantic who identifies as queer, which feo has said is not accurate

Re: Holy crap, you guys

[feotakahari]

Like I said at the top, I just say I'm queer, and I try to avoid elaborating. There was a point a few years ago when I was so into labels that I kept collecting more and more, calling myself increasingly stupid terms to feel like I belonged to something, but when I got to "biromantic demisexual," I realized I was being an idiot and shut the hell up. (And before anyone gets the wrong idea, neither of those two terms are really an accurate description of me--I was just frantically scrambling for a label.)

Re: Holy crap, you guys

[diet_poison]

In all fairness, it's really hard for people to know you're not making shit up if you are willing to elaborate (though not necessarily to the point of sharing your fantasies ofc). Even if it's just to say something like "I'm attracted to various people of various genders" or something?

idk, I don't doubt you specifically and I think you're getting waaay too much bullshit here. But it does kinda seem like you bring it up, and to offer some perspective, repeatedly bringing up a topic and then refusing to elaborate kinda does come across as special snowflakey.

I hope you'll take this as concrit rather than bashing because honestly, I like you :)