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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-28 04:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #2978 ]


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I think I made someone mad and I don't know what I did :(

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
There's a user that I used to talk to a lot on here and enjoyed talking to but lately they've been ignoring me and I don't know why. I can't think of anything I did that would've pissed them off unless maybe someone else got into my account without my knowing and was an asshole or something. It's probably a dumb thing to care about but it makes me sad. :(

Re: I think I made someone mad and I don't know what I did :(

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
Just ask them about it.

Re: I think I made someone mad and I don't know what I did :(

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes people just stop getting along.

Just the way it is, I guess.

Re: I think I made someone mad and I don't know what I did :(

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
well, you could ask them about it like an adult instead of posting this in the hopes that they'll come across this comment and put the pieces together.

they could also be having some personal issues and don't really feel like talking to people
elaminator: (Uncharted 3: The end)

Re: I think I made someone mad and I don't know what I did :(

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-03-01 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
Uh, are you sure they're purposefully ignoring you? Sometimes people get busy or just don't feel like replying to things, and it might not be a sign that you did anything wrong.

Suppose you could be growing apart, people do that sometimes, but you should probably just ask if you think you did something to offend them.

Re: I think I made someone mad and I don't know what I did :(

(Anonymous) 2015-03-01 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
Don't ever assume anything unless you have strong evidence to back it up, and them not talking to you lately is not necessarily evidence of them being mad at you, any number of things could be going on.

I recommend trying to reach out one more time (something along the lines of, "Hey! I haven't heard from you in a while! I hope everything's okay!") and then just wait and see.

In the meantime, don't obsess about it! Do something to cheer yourself up and distract yourself, watch some tv, play a game, talk to another friend. It's okay to feel sad but try not to get too wrapped up in it.