[ SECRET POST #2978 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2978 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

short musing (warning: age gap in teenage relationship)

[(Anonymous)]

Erring on the side of caution.

Re: short musing (warning: age gap in teenage relationship)

[(Anonymous)]

A friend from high school had a (same-sex) relationship with a 13 year old when they were around 17. They hardly saw each other irl cause the 13yo's parent disapproved. I was kinda squicked at the time, only kinda because ew friendship sure was blind: they hardly met in person and I assumed my friend knew better than to take advantage of them. Also, some of their conversations were public on the internet for some reckless reason, and didn't set off my (compromised) alarm bells.

They broke up, I'm not sure how, and years later said friend is still my friend. Said friend also did/said some other things I've whole-heartedly disagreed with over the years, but I've never argued with them about those because I felt they weren't at the level that they would hurt anyone. I just agreed to disagree or ignored those.

I'm not dependent on them for something, so I won't bend over backwards not to fall out with them, but it seems I had for ignoring that relationship. I didn't get a feeling as strong as my disagreement with those other things. I just felt puzzled and hoped it would end without harm. I could ask them about the details now, but I'm scared to open old wounds, and they could lie. I think I am really weak after all.

Re: short musing (warning: age gap in teenage relationship)

[raspberryrain]

We do stupid stuff when we're young. Maybe don't worry about it?

Re: short musing (warning: age gap in teenage relationship)

[(Anonymous)]

Don't worry about it. They were both underage. We all do dumb things when we're young. Now if it was an adult 18+ and a 13-year old, then I'd be worried. But in this circumstance, they were still both teenagers.