[ SECRET POST #2980 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2980 ⌋

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Notes:

Lots of multiple secrets in one comment this week, throwing off the count!

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Comments

[kallanda_lee]

Honestly, in my original fiction, I try to avoid things that could resemble my family too much; for my graduating screenplay, my mom was already bitching about the fact my protagonist had shitty parents, and she somehow took that personally.

I can see how that would extend to ethnicity, really. it certainly could extend to nationality in my case, too.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm kind of worried that my parents might take the shitty parents and shitty grandparents of various characters personally. I hope they won't because they should realize its just fiction.

[kallanda_lee]

It was like really silly, too, because it was basically urban sci-fi - and, it wasn't even super realistic.

[(Anonymous)]

Or maybe you guys have controlling, intrusive parents who cannot keep regulate their own emotional baggage and guilt-trip their offspring when said offspring finally get around to expressing how they feel about being policed all the damn time.

No seriously. You can't tell me you actually think it's healthy for your parents to be bitching about this kind of thing right? Newsflash: it's not. It's childish, tittybaby behaviour. Especially from a parent. If you wouldn't accept that kind of whining from your friends, you sure as hell oughtn't accept it from them. Maybe you guys write characters with piss-poor parents for a reason.

Anyway carry on. Just something to think about.............................

[(Anonymous)]

you seem to be making a lot of leaps here

[kallanda_lee]

But...I'm not policed? Like sure, they have emotional baggage - but who doesn't?

I'd describe it more like petty than controlling. It's not like I CAN'T write it, but basically, some people just think stuff is about them even if it isn't. And some people get really weird about the possibility of ending up in a writer's story.

[elialshadowpine]

When I was a kid, I wrote a retelling of Cinderella with snow leopards. Yeah, yeah, weird child. Mom read the story and took me aside to ask me if there was something wrong, if I was mad at my sister for something, and I was confused at first, then realized what she was asking. I'm not sure how I managed to come up with the sheer amount of derision in my voice, but my response was, at age 7 or so, "Mom. It's fiction."

...she's never asked if something has been based on a family member since! Dad, on the other hand, is Not Allowed to read my stuff, between the things he would find objectionable, and the fact that he would read it through the microscopic lens of searching for something that could possibly be taken personally against him.

Grr at people who read too many personal things into fiction that aren't there. Never mind the lit types who pull out ridiculous things like "blue curtains are a metaphor for depression" (yes, that one's a meme, but I've had lit profs that have come out with analyses that are similarly inane... and then gotten pissed when the rest of the class "failed" to come up with "meaningful critical analyses" because we focused on characters and plot vs. hunting for metaphor in descriptions; I eventually started pulling shit completely out my ass, the more bizarre the better, and my grades jumped from B- to A+). As annoying as that is, at least it doesn't follow you home.

[kallanda_lee]

While I loved literature in class, I always sort of hated the analysis for that very reason. I'm sure that in the vast majority of cases, if the author was sitting there, they'd be sitting their with their mouth wide open, shaking their head in disbelief.

[elialshadowpine]

Yesss. Speaking as an author who has had some things published (nothing available at the moment, out of print, though I'm hoping to polish off and republish stuff sometime this year), I'm pretty sure if I heard of someone approaching my work this way, I would probably headdesk and then hit the booze.

And probably write a strongly worded e-mail to the professor in question. However, it's exceedingly unlikely I'll ever be in this boat because I write *gasp* genre fiction (SFF with romantic elements) and thus I am an UNWORTHY HEATHEN. In this case, I'll take being unworthy as a backhanded benefit...