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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-02 06:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #2980 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2980 ⌋

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Notes:

Lots of multiple secrets in one comment this week, throwing off the count!

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 083 secrets from Secret Submission Post #426.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
Haha, I was wondering how long it would be before someone suggested dumping him.

A lot of Fandom Secrets members need to learn the difference between 'good person who is occasionally an asshole' and 'abusive POS who needs to be thrown out immediately'.

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think you have to be actually abusive to be worthy of dumping.

Just being obnoxious or a dick is a good enough reason, for me.

And, yeah, I know no one is perfect and everyone has a few moments of dickishness. But peeing in someone's bath is the kind of deliberate, childish, asshole behavior that no one should have to tolerate in an adult.

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah because OP was being a total mature adult in the scenario, way to jump to conclusions

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
I hadn't seen that post yet. Now that I have, I agree that the OP was mostly at fault.

I do still believe that intentionally peeing in someone's bath would be something worth breaking up over. There was nothing in the original statement to let anyone know that this wasn't the case.

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
+1

OP left some important shit out of that first post.

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT: Yep. Especially when they don't have the full story. Given OP's explanation below... way to jump the gun dissing the guy there.

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
We can only go on the information the OP has given, if the OP has withheld relevant information then not being psychic we cannot base a judgement on it. Given that the OP apparently withheld very relevant information, we can only conclude the OP is trolling for the purpose of getting this reaction and then starting wank when they got it.

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
yep

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
True. But most people will go "gross" or "what?", not suggest dumping based on a couple of lines.
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Re: Grossness

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-03-03 05:45 am (UTC)(link)
You would think...

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 02:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Depends how gross they find the concept of a grown person pissing in their partners bathwater. That level of grossness could easily be a deal breaker.

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 06:57 am (UTC)(link)
Well, to be fair, I think this was mostly an attept to shame me.

You may be right, tho. Perhaps she should have dumped me last night.

Especially now that Piddlegate has gone public. The game is on.

Re: Grossness

(Anonymous) 2015-03-03 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
I know what the difference is, and pissing in the bathtub while someone is drawing a bath is on the other side of it. That is a line crossed there. I gave the option of him being impaired in some way that would excuse it, so don't go making me out to be some sort of uptight NAZI here, but if he was stone cold straight sober and pissed in your bath while it was being drawn then that is on the side of asshole who needs to leave the relationship until he can grow up.