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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-06 07:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #2984 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2984 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #426.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: "multiple systems"

(Anonymous) 2015-03-07 10:21 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a survivor myself, thanks; I understand how disassociation after trauma works. I draw the line at naming your fantasy-"headmates" and playing them out constantly in real life as though they're real people that happen to exist alongside you inside your own head. That's when it's gone over into genuine mental illness, and it needs to be handled, to the point of dissolving said fantasies. Coping mechanisms aren't there for you to hide behind for the rest of your life-- they're there to help you deal with things and move on.

I'm not going to comment on the transgender argument, because it's literally not applicable here.

Re: "multiple systems"

(Anonymous) 2015-03-07 10:47 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad that you have apparently found a way to deal with your trauma, but what worked for you won't necessarilly work for everyone and some people never get better.

lb lee is attending therapy, so unless you're their therapist, you're not the one who gets to decide what coping method is good for them and at which point they're going too far and step back.

Re: "multiple systems"

(Anonymous) 2015-03-07 10:50 am (UTC)(link)
sa

Oh, and the transgender argument is applicable,on account of lb_lee being transgender. You clearly know literally nothing about them, so eprhaps you should refrain from judgement.

Re: "multiple systems"

(Anonymous) 2015-03-07 12:04 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

Unless you're them (which I'm beginning to suspect you may be), neither do you. You know what they've been writing on the internet, which, like everything else on here, could be total BS.

Re: "multiple systems"

(Anonymous) 2015-03-07 01:11 pm (UTC)(link)
No, I'm not them. I'm the person higher up in this thread who spoke about their own experience with using DID as a coping method.

I doubt that they're lying, I read their account about their rape and it didn't sound like the kind of story someone would make up for attention. But if they are bullshiting, that doesn't change the fact that my arguments are valid for the facts presented to us.

Re: "multiple systems"

(Anonymous) 2015-03-07 01:42 pm (UTC)(link)
In lb's case, I'm not doubting their experiences but after the whole "goldenphoenixgirl" affair on tumblr, I'd say there are no limits to the stories some people would make up.