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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-09 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #2987 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2987 ⌋

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elaminator: (The Authority: Angela)

Re: While we're on the topic of compliments

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-03-10 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
The same one I mentioned in the compliments thread. This woman who I haven't seen in years couldn't stop going on about how different I look. She mentioned my makeup and dimples too which cracked me up because I've had these dimples my whole life and I've been wearing makeup since middle school.

I think it boiled down to "Wow, you look so much thinner," which in itself isn't something I would hate hearing because, well, I do, but the phrasing was so awkward and made me feel terrible about myself.

Re: While we're on the topic of compliments

(Anonymous) 2015-03-10 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
Oh I hate those "you look so good and different" backhanded compliments. It really implies they didn't think you did before.
elaminator: (Samurai Flamenco - Masayoshi (screaming)

Re: While we're on the topic of compliments

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-03-10 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
I would rather not get the compliment at all, tbh. Compliments are supposed to make you feel good about yourself, not shitty.