Case (![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
case) wrote in ![[community profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png)
fandomsecrets2015-03-09 06:54 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-03-09 06:54 pm
[ SECRET POST #2987 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2987 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
01.
__________________________________________________
02.
__________________________________________________
03.
__________________________________________________
04.
__________________________________________________
05.
__________________________________________________
06.
__________________________________________________
07.
__________________________________________________
08.
__________________________________________________
09.
__________________________________________________
10.
__________________________________________________
11.
__________________________________________________
12.
__________________________________________________
13.
__________________________________________________
14.
__________________________________________________
15.
__________________________________________________
16.
__________________________________________________
17.
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 068 secrets from Secret Submission Post #427.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: Try this again: What would you do FS?
(Anonymous) 2015-03-10 12:50 am (UTC)(link)I think you should do whatever you need to do that will bring you closure. From the sounds of it, I don't think attending the funeral will do that for you. I think that you want some acknowledgement of how you were treated, and from the info you've laid out here, I'm not so sure that you'll get that at the funeral.
You don't have to go. You don't owe anyone anything, there's no obligation to attend.
Think about what you need, and then do what will help you.
Re: Try this again: What would you do FS?
(Anonymous) 2015-03-10 12:56 am (UTC)(link)Yeah. You're right. I mean, I still want to dance on the grave. But, higher roads, &c...I'm honestly not even sure what could resolve the issue right now (if anything even could), because I'm still getting over the shock of it all. So I have no idea what would constitute closure, if I even want closure, if I even need closure. One thing I do know, beyond doubt, I can't make any decisions right now, because I'm still at "nuke it from orbit and salt the earth just to be sure" levels of rage right now....
Re: Try this again: What would you do FS?
(Anonymous) 2015-03-10 01:27 am (UTC)(link)You know what, though? That is a fabulous first step. Be angry, because you've a right to be angry. But don't make decisions in haste; make a decision when you're ready to.
I'll keep my fingers crossed and send good vibes to you. It's obviously raw and painful right now, but I hope you can work everything out and get to a better place. They always say that living well is the best revenge. :)
Re: Try this again: What would you do FS?
(Anonymous) 2015-03-10 02:37 am (UTC)(link)