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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-11 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2989 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2989 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
(Digimon Adventure/02/Tri)


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03.
['Allo 'Allo!]


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04.
[Colby Keller]


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05.
[Kokoro Kiseki - Vocaloid]


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06.
[MSPaintAdventures, Homestuck]


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07.
[David Mitchell and Robert Webb]


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08.
[Graham McTavish from Outlander]


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09.
[Game of Thrones/ A Song of Ice and Fire]


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10.
[Alfred Hitchcock's Rope]


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11.
["Darkness Falls," World of Warcraft: Warlords of Draenor]


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12.
[Avengers]


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13.
[Bob Bryar from My Chemical Romance]


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14.
[Criminal Minds]


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15.
[Vikings]


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16.
[Gunnerkrigg Court]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 034 secrets from Secret Submission Post #427.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-12 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
IIRC, active denial is actually a viable psychological option when it comes to existensial crises (which, like OP's issue, has at its core things that are totally unchangeable no matter how much you dwell on it and make yourself miserable and terrified), so it's not a bad idea in all circumstances.

If the denial's keeping you from seeing the things you can change and the places where you do have power/control over yourself, then it's obviously a bad idea. But when it comes to things you can't affect at all? Seems like a reasonable plan to me.