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⌈ Secret Post #2990 ⌋

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(Transformers Prime)

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(Transformers Prime)

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[Wish / Clamp / Manga in this artstyle in general]

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[Terry Pratchett]

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[STRAIN: Strategic Armored Infantry]

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[CSI Cyber]

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[POTC & One Piece]

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[Marvel Comics' Black Widow]

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[James Corden, new host of the LATE LATE SHOW (and for DOCTOR WHO)]

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[Harry Potter]

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[Fallen London]

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This is to post from yesterday.
I to wank and not have sex with my significant other.
Don't get me wrong, it is great with them.
I don't know if I like the situations more or what.
I can tell it's updating my better half and it's been over 4 months I would guess.
I'm worried that it makes my other mad and is probably going to leave me.
I don't want to give up my fantasies but I feel bad for excluding in my activities. It is just easier I think to do it myself with what I read maybe.

Any advice on how to handle this?

...Updating? That's not the word you meant to use there.

Can you maybe elaborate a bit on why you don't want to have sex with your partner? "It's easier" doesn't really seem like the full story.

By easier, I mean less work.
I expend less energy on my own.
Effort barrier I guess you can call it.

So... what you're saying is you don't want your partner enough to want to have sex with your partner.

I mean, I'll be real, masturbation is more satisfying and easier for a lot of people. The reasons people have sex are for intimacy, to try new and different things, because they want to please someone... etc.

If you're finding sex to be a chore (and you haven't always) it might be time to think about whether or not you really want to be with your partner.

Stop wanking and reading/watching porn for a few weeks and see how you feel. If you can't not wank, at least stop reading/watching porn. It'll be tough at first if you're really that dependent on it, but you don't really have anything to lose by abstaining for a little while.

what is this and why is this here I am so confused

Are you male or female?

why in hell does that matter

Has this been put through Google Translate a few times?

No
I was typing that on my lunch break. Only have a cheap two year old phone that is slow.
I'm still at work and I wanted to post but I don't have computer access here.
Sorry for the bad wording. Auto correct can be a pita.

"Autocorrect can be a pita."

I don't know if this legit of not, but your attempts are so great. Keep on keeping on.

What is wrong with that statement?
It can be a pain in the a$$.
Or at least I think so as well.

Heh, mea culpa. I didn't realize it was an acronym. I thought your phone autocorrected pain to pita and it cracked me up.

No worries.
I gathered that was what the OP was going for.
Not everyone recognizes that one.

Are you not the OP?

PITA is a legitimate slang term in this situation.

Oh lol, for real. I didn't know.

Sometimes I feel the same, but you should probably discuss your feelings with your sig other. Maybe try your fantasies with them during sex? If possible. You def need to get a dialogue going with your sig other, though.

You can have sex without finishing from the sex alone. It's not necessarily your fault if partnered activities don't generally finish you. But it's understandable for your partner to be upset. Maybe try just having sex and then finishing with mutual masturbation or something

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