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fandomsecrets2015-03-13 07:04 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-03-13 07:04 pm
[ SECRET POST #2991 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2991 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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(Keeping Up Appearances)
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(Steven Universe)
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06. http://i.imgur.com/j3CivJT.jpg
[linked for porn (illustrated/pixelated) ]
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[Brian Blessed]
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08. [ SPOILERS for Grimm and Elementary ]
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09. [ SPOILERS for Project Zero/Fatal Frame 2: Crimson Butterfly ]
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10. [ SPOILERS for Transformers: More than Meets the Eye ]
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11. [ WARNING for abuse, rape ]
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12. [ WARNING for rape, abuse ]
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13. [ WARNING for suicide ]
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14. [ WARNING for noncon, slavery ]
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15. [ WARNING for abuse ]
[One Piece]
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16. [ WARNING for suicide ]
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #427.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: How do you be more positive?
I've always considered myself to be a 'glass half full' person. I don't dwell on 'bad' stuff or negatives, i don't obsess over *possible* bad outcomes. I figure out a) exactly was is wrong/missing/needed.
Figure out the fix, and work on it. If there is *no* fix (you have an illness that's not going to go away) then you research what it is, how it works, what works to make it better, and you start dealing with 'okay, i can't do *this* like i used to, but if i break it up into these three bits and have SO/friend/family do *this*, then i can get it done.
Searching for solutions, working toward a goal of fixing/learning/easing is always a positive. Don't sit around going 'omg omg omg, i lost my wallet! I'm gonna have my identity stolen and end up owing a million dollars!!' Probably not. Probably it's down the couch or in the driveway or at the grocery. Probably you might have a charge you didn't make that your bank/c.card will forgive since you got right on it and called them.
Long winded way of saying - don't think about the negative. STOP thinking about the negative. Seek out the positive even if it's just 'well, now i get to buy a new wallet!' and cut short anyone trying to harsh your bliss. Even if they say 'omg, identity theft!!!', tell them 'nah, i got on it, it'll be fine.'
Sorry this is so much blah blah blah, but it's hard to explain in a sentence or two. This is what works for me. Work toward the positive outcome you want, expect it to happen, prepare for *all* outcomes, and stay calm.
Re: How do you be more positive?
(Anonymous) 2015-03-14 03:05 am (UTC)(link)Re: How do you be more positive?
Re: How do you be more positive?
Re: How do you be more positive?