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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-13 07:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #2991 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2991 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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03.
(Keeping Up Appearances)


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(Steven Universe)


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06. http://i.imgur.com/j3CivJT.jpg
[linked for porn (illustrated/pixelated) ]


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[Brian Blessed]


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08. [ SPOILERS for Grimm and Elementary ]



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09. [ SPOILERS for Project Zero/Fatal Frame 2: Crimson Butterfly ]



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10. [ SPOILERS for Transformers: More than Meets the Eye ]



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11. [ WARNING for abuse, rape ]



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12. [ WARNING for rape, abuse ]



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13. [ WARNING for suicide ]



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14. [ WARNING for noncon, slavery ]



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15. [ WARNING for abuse ]

[One Piece]


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16. [ WARNING for suicide ]














Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #427.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: How do you be more positive?

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-03-14 04:24 am (UTC)(link)
Practice and improvement in tiny increments. When you catch yourself being overly negative, distract yourself or "argue" with yourself and justify why that Thing wasn't as bad as you're thinking.

Don't berate yourself for having negative thoughts, it's perfectly normal for people to be guilty or anxious sometimes - but you got to catch yourself when you're being excessively so.

My main uh catch at grabbing myself is asking myself "will this matter tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, ten years" then allow myself fret accordingly...but anything that falls under the tomorrow/next week I will distract myself from and wait it out. Probably helps i've got shit memory so if I don't think about it the cause of upset fades or the sting leaves.

The change is ever so slow