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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-15 03:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2993 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2993 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 09:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Well I discussed this with a psychologist who said that things like that CONTRIBUTE to rape culture because, when repeated, it normalizes a rapists' behavior.

I know reddit had a thread a little while ago which was deleted -- it asked rapists to share their stories.

A psychologist also came in there and said that this was a bad idea because it gave rapists a platform and the possibility of finding support.

But I do think that someone who is willing to rape another human being might very well be interpreting people's responses to jokes differently than you or I.

So, yes, I do think it contributes. And I think men who call out rape jokes are doing good.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, contributing to rape culture would mean that the existence of a rape culture was an actual fact - which it isn't. It's a very much debated concept.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-03-15 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Now I kinda wish I could read that thread. It would be interesting to see what exactly drove people to do something like that (other than/more specific than the whole "getting off on power" thing).

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
It's discussed here: http://www.reddit.com/r/MuseumOfReddit/comments/1t1r2z/the_ask_a_rapist_thread/

But the thread was deleted.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-03-16 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
damn.

that's creepy.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh and here's a thread by the psychologist telling reddit how dangerous the ask-a-rapist thread was:

http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/xf5c2/reddit_are_you_aware_how_dangerous_the_askarapist/