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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-15 03:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2993 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2993 ⌋

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Re: "Toxic"

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Always makes me think of the "Toxic masculinity is why school shooters are always male" thing.

Re: "Toxic"

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
What is toxic masculinity?

Re: "Toxic"

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Just google "Jeremy Clarkson".

Re: "Toxic"

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
it's the idea that there's just as much culture to press male kids into being shitty to themselves as girls - boys don't cry, boys are supposed to fight, boys are supposed to be boys, wear jeans, get dirty. it's the same strict old tropey ideas. teach a little boy that he can't cry over his favorite film where the dog dies because only pussies cry.

you don't want to be a pussy, little boy. man up. get the girl. what, you can't? pussssyyyyy. Repeat until the kid explodes into a hot mess of issues and depression.

that's sort of the gist of it.

it's popular topics among a lot of feminists, the ideas that the gender roles used to fuck up girls can be just as damaging to boys.

Re: "Toxic"

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, the oppressive gender roles oppressing both sides, thing, then? I didn't know it had a proper term.
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Re: "Toxic"

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-03-16 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
It's more than just that but that's part of it.

I'd say toxic masculinity extends to attitudes adult men have towards women, sex, relationships...it's pretty far-reaching actually. Men who are so wrapped up in being masculine and see masculinity as synonymous with aggression, power, and dominance...that's toxic masculinity.