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fandomsecrets2015-03-15 03:45 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-03-15 03:45 pm
[ SECRET POST #2993 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2993 ⌋
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 123 secrets from Secret Submission Post #428.
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Re: "Toxic"
(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)That's how I'd define it. There are people I wouldn't call "abusive" or "harmful" because there is no tangible abuse or clear-cut harm taking place. Toxic people don't always even realize they're behaving in ways that cause others stress and pain, whereas abusive or harmful people treat people badly deliberately to glean some satisfaction from it.
Someone who constantly, but without any deliberate malice, goes on about something they know upsets you and drags you into things that cause you great deals of stress and anxiety would be toxic, but not abusive.
I suppose I see toxic in it's traditional sense of something that's got the potential to cause a great deal of harm if it's misused. Like some people, given the right circumstances, can cause you a great deal of mental or emotional distress, despite not being in and of themselves bad people.