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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-15 03:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2993 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2993 ⌋

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Re: confessions thread

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
sa

man, I don't even know sometimes. relationships is part of it, and what I worry I'll screw up if I had a chance - not cheating, you know? I'm not interested in cheating on him. just... like, if I found my own footing and got my own stability, would I end up trying to break it off, not because I don't love him, but because I want to go explore?

I feel like I'm missing something, mostly.

as for things we could do together, part of the problem is we do EVERYTHING TOGETHER. I'm individualistic. he's clingy. I can't even get him to just go fuck off by himself for twenty minutes when we're at a renfaire or something because he'll, like, wilt or something. heh.
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Re: confessions thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-03-16 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe his clinginess is just exhausting you?

I wish I could say more to help - I tend to be more...not really clingy (I hope), but definitely liking to spend time with my partner (when I have one), do romantic things, stuff like that. Have you talked to him and told him it's really important that you have you-time? That can be really sticky, I know...

Re: confessions thread

(Anonymous) 2015-03-16 04:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I think that's some of it; he's out of town on business right now and I know he's miserable, but I'm doing fine. I enjoy it, the only downside is we're really rural atm for his work and it's been a rotten winter and it's hard to get out and do different things.

It's something we work on, yeah. All your advice is solid. :) I just worry what could happen in the future, cause that's how I do.