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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-15 03:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2993 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2993 ⌋

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Re: confessions thread

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-03-16 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
Sure, they shouldn't, but people very often do agree to things they don't want to in relationships. For all kinds of reasons, really. Pressure, fear of losing the relationship, apathy... imo, the fact that the cheating happened is less important than the reason why it happened.

For example: "I was bored" is a less understandable reason than, "my partner is controlling" or "I might actually be gay and I needed to find out". Some cheaters cheat for the thrill, but most cheaters cheat because they're unhappy in a relationship.

Re: confessions thread

(Anonymous) 2015-03-16 06:18 am (UTC)(link)
Some cheaters cheat for the thrill, but most cheaters cheat because they're unhappy in a relationship.

Cheating is a p shitty way of dealing with those problems tho

Re: confessions thread

(Anonymous) 2015-03-16 06:40 am (UTC)(link)
where did they say it wasn't?

Re: confessions thread

(Anonymous) 2015-03-16 07:27 pm (UTC)(link)
thats at least the very strong implication of 'cheating is less important than the reason cheating happened'

at least on my reading

Re: confessions thread

(Anonymous) 2015-03-16 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
your reading is ridiculous
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Re: confessions thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-03-16 05:48 pm (UTC)(link)
There really isn't a good excuse for cheating.

If anon's relationship is unhappy, they should end it or work on making it better.

Re: confessions thread

(Anonymous) 2015-03-16 06:43 pm (UTC)(link)
most cheaters cheat because lack of self control and empathy, giving them the out that they're "unhappy" in their relationships buys into the excuses they use, but it's not the reason