[ SECRET POST #2994 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2994 ⌋

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Comments

Re: does this seem weird to y'all? (relationship probs)

[(Anonymous)]

i keep going back and forth myself. to be fair, this has been the theme of every romantic relationship i've had. i always end up feeling jerked around and strung along, and i know enough to realise it, but i guess i'm just not smart or strong enough to stay away. i still want to talk to him to see where he's at, but since he's not enthused about the idea of being my boyfriend, it's kinda turned me off to dating him.

Re: does this seem weird to y'all? (relationship probs)

[(Anonymous)]

I seriously feel like you deserve better, anon.

Re: does this seem weird to y'all? (relationship probs)

[(Anonymous)]

thank you. i feel like i do too, but he doesnt seem to understand where i'm coming from at all, so i was hoping i could get some insight as to why he acts the way he does. i don't think it's me honestly, he seems to do this to other girls he "almost dated." but i tried to be good for him and it hasn't been enough. i think he's being weird. i'm glad it doesn't seem to be just me, either.

Re: does this seem weird to y'all? (relationship probs)

[(Anonymous)]

No, I think he's being weird too. If you really, really like him then stick around. But if you don't feel like putting up with his crap and decide to end things, then the blame's 100% on him, in my opinion.

Re: does this seem weird to y'all? (relationship probs)

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe you contribute to this behavior?

Re: does this seem weird to y'all? (relationship probs)

[(Anonymous)]

i don't think so. i've done a lot of soul-searching and introspecting about it. in truth, my past relationships (2) were both abusive. B is the first guy i've been with that hasn't abused me, physically or emotionally. he was also the first who hasn't sexually abused me either. in my other relationships, the theme was largely control. i'm only seeing vague amounts of that with B, ie. he expects me to commit as if we're official but dislikes the idea of him doing the same, in essence. i think i just have poor luck. i was hoping my time with B would be different, and it has been. but it hurts that, as lovely as he is as a whole, he can't find it in himself to date me.