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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-23 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3001 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3001 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Red Dwarf]


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03.
[Tim Gutterson, Justified]


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[Obscurus Lupa; Channel Awesome]


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[Joseph Gordon-Levitt]


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[Blackadder]


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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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[Babylon 5]


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[Pacific Rim]


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[Diana Gabaldon, Outlander series]


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[L.A. Confidential]


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[Koe no Katachi]


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[Cold Case]


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[Amanda Palmer & Neil Gaiman]


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[Sirens]


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[Neighbours]


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[Sleepy Hollow]


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18.
[Neil Gaiman & Amanda Palmer]


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19.
[Garbage - Only happy when it rains]


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20.
[Mary Portas, aka "Mary, Queen of Shops"]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 088 secrets from Secret Submission Post #429.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-23 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
It's the suicide-faking, partner-traumatizing, using-said-trauma-as-"art" aspect of AP that I object to. And that she still seems to think this was an a-okay thing to do. That is flat-out loathesome behavior.

And in conjunction to a large amount of smaller offenses (some of which you mentioned-- also things like simulated rape on stage) adds up to say, yeah, I hate her and her actions. There's documentation for all of this, it's not like it's some libelous rumour!
ninety6tears: jim w/ red bground (SH)

[personal profile] ninety6tears 2015-03-24 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, there are plenty of reasons to disapprove. I'm a NG fan but i disliked her plenty before I knew they were together.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-24 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
And I don't care if or why you hate her.

That's no reason to be horrible and use extremely misogynistic tactics the likes of which I see from MRAs in criticizing her. (Like the OP.)
ninety6tears: lydia looking away (tw: lydia)

[personal profile] ninety6tears 2015-03-24 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
No, to be clear, I think the hatred directed toward her is often suspect when it's not obviously misogynistic and a lot of the secrets we get here about her are in very bad taste at best. But as much as I would say "hate" is too strong a word for how I feel about her I don't think you can just lump in the people who might have a very strong reaction to her unapologetically harmful behavior or define when that's proportionate to what she's done and when it absolutely has to be sexism.
Edited 2015-03-24 01:51 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2015-03-24 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
Putting women on pedestals and defending their truly harmful actions is not the answer to misogyny.