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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-23 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3001 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3001 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Red Dwarf]


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03.
[Tim Gutterson, Justified]


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[Obscurus Lupa; Channel Awesome]


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[Joseph Gordon-Levitt]


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[Blackadder]


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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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[Babylon 5]


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[Pacific Rim]


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[Diana Gabaldon, Outlander series]


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[L.A. Confidential]


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[Koe no Katachi]


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[Cold Case]


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[Amanda Palmer & Neil Gaiman]


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[Sirens]


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[Neighbours]


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[Sleepy Hollow]


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18.
[Neil Gaiman & Amanda Palmer]


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19.
[Garbage - Only happy when it rains]


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20.
[Mary Portas, aka "Mary, Queen of Shops"]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 088 secrets from Secret Submission Post #429.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Partner wanting to do sexual things you don't like

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-03-24 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
Depends on where the boundaries of the relationship lie. Are both people in question truly completely fine with letting each other go off and have sexual experiences that are extraneous to the relationship? And more importantly, is the feeling mutual? Like, if your friend also wanted to have sex outside the relationship would that be okay? If so, that's fine.

Is your friend making a concession she's really not comfortable with just because she thinks it would improve matters? Then it's probably not a great idea.

But you're 100% correct in that isn't none of your business. It'll either work for them or it won't, and that's their issue to navigate.