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⌈ Secret Post #3001 ⌋

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[Red Dwarf]

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[Tim Gutterson, Justified]

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[Obscurus Lupa; Channel Awesome]

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[Joseph Gordon-Levitt]

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[Blackadder]

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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]

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[Babylon 5]

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[Pacific Rim]

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[Diana Gabaldon, Outlander series]

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[L.A. Confidential]

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[Koe no Katachi]

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[Cold Case]

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[Amanda Palmer & Neil Gaiman]

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[Sirens]

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[Neighbours]

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[Sleepy Hollow]

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[Neil Gaiman & Amanda Palmer]

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[Garbage - Only happy when it rains]

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[Mary Portas, aka "Mary, Queen of Shops"]

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I don't think it's unreasonable, but, she needs to be completely clear about what her boundaries and expectations actually are. Does she want to meet the other person first? What happens if he tries this act and discovers that he really likes it? Would she be okay with him continuing to engage in it with other people, or is she only comfortable with him doing it once? Let's say it's the latter. Is he allowed to do anything else in the process of engaging in this act with the other person? How would she feel if he did? And how would she feel if this experience turns him on to the idea of a truly open relationship?

It could work, but this sort of thing takes a lot of trust, a lot of communication, and a pretty thorough understanding of oneself.

On another note, I completely agree that no one should feel forced to do anything that they're uncomfortable with. It's important to do your best to meet your partner halfway when it comes to sexual interests and fantasies, but we all have some things that we just will not do, and that's okay.

[ SECRET POST #3001 ]

Re: Partner wanting to do sexual things you don't like