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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-25 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #3003 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3003 ⌋

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Re: "I need you more than you need me."

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-03-26 09:49 am (UTC)(link)
Don't blame yourself. Don't blame them either. If it's indeed depression they're, quite literally, not thinking the way they normally would.

It's a shit situation that is nobody's fault.

Encourage professional help, but if they won't, do listen to their reasons (is it money, past bad experiences, stigma etc stopping them).

There's different kinds of therapy (CBT isn't psychoanalysis, for example), and there might be self-help groups that are free (or feel less daunting than one-on-one therapy).

It's so easy to get "stuck" wit depression, sometimes people giving ou options you haven't thought of is important.


Just be the best friend you can be, while still setting clear boundaries so you do not get sucked into the abyss with them.
Edited 2015-03-26 09:49 (UTC)