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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-26 06:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #3004 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3004 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-03-26 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Isn't anal supposed to b extteamly painful if you don't do it correctly though? It can even damage and fuck up your butt if you're not careful. Lol no I'd rather not tempt fate.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-26 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
It depends. This is probably true for many/most women (and men). Not everyone needs the same amount of preparation. And other forms of sex can be equally painful.

Basically, it is an individual thing and the OP is wrong. As long as everyone is consenting and getting what they need and want, it doesn't matter what they are/aren't trying.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-26 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, any form of penetrative sex can fuck you up if you do it wrong. But straight boys don't have a good track record with butt stuff so I don't blame cishet ladies for being apprehensive. =P

(Anonymous) 2015-03-27 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
THIS!

The horror stories I've heard from my lady friends about what overeager straight guys have tried to do. Not one of the boys seemed to have done any basic research or even have thought about how that area worked first, or you know, showed any consideration at all for their partners.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-27 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of straight boys couldn't find the clitoris even with GPS. Asking them to know that there's a difference between anal and vaginal sex is expecting far too much.

Of course, that porn shows it's easy peasy to just shove it up the ass with no trouble whatsoever doesn't help any.

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-03-27 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
It can... but most of the time it's not an issue with a lot of lube and a lot of lead in.

I mean, think about it like this: most dicks aren't as big as some of the poops you've passed.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-27 06:14 am (UTC)(link)
Have you ever taken a huuuge dump, that hurt when it came out? that thing doesn't prepare you much, either, and chances are your Boyfriend's Dick is a little less thick. Really, the whole "She did anal and then she shat all over the house and blamed it on the dog" is just an urban legend. YOu need to be considerate with ANY sexual practice - hell, you could bite your partner's tongue and he could die!
Anal is just so loaded with prejudice that some really exaggerated misconceptions exist and are perpetuated again and again.
Don't let them frighten you. It's really not that complicated or dangerous.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-27 07:18 am (UTC)(link)
It's not that hard, straight guys just take all their cues from porn, and they don't know that before they shoot the porn everyone gets lubed at stretched up before they do vigorous pounding anal sex.

I recommend that for beginners in anal you start with fingers and toys only. Vibrating toys (always a flared base for anal!) can help you relax. Take your time and don't expect to get it all in on the first night.

The first time you put a dick in it, have the receiving partner be on top and control everything. Once they get used to that, they you can try other positions.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-27 07:18 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, and of course, lots of lube. lots. and a condom.