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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-26 06:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #3004 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3004 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Hoozuki no reitetsu]


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[Terry Pratchett and his daughter]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 022 secrets from Secret Submission Post #429.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
quirkytizzy: (Default)

[personal profile] quirkytizzy 2015-03-27 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
This. I enjoy pegging and once in a great great while, receiving. Women really do feel it differently than men, which is fine. But yeah, it's not going to be the same as all the slash fic.

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-03-27 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
This is what I commonly hear, yep.

Plus... this secret bothers me in that it assumes anal sex is something someone should do because of fandom and not because the idea of them having anal sex turns them on. Like because I like Call of Duty I should automatically want to go out and spend a million hours at the firing range or something.

Doesn't make sense.
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[personal profile] sarillia 2015-03-27 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
I don't really think that's what it's trying to say. It seems more about finding it weird that people aren't more curious about this thing that they write and read about, which I can get. I'll admit that I'm surprised by how many people have such a strong answer to "why not?" It's not that I think they should do it, I just would have thought there would be more curiosity out there. But I may be more up for trying things that don't necessarily turn me on just out of curiosity than most people.

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-03-27 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
I'd say so. It's fairly rare for people to be open to going outside their sexual comfort zones, and people tend to have pretty visceral reactions to the idea.

But then, ymmv on that because there are plenty of people like you who have the "try anything once" attitude toward sex (I'll admit I'm kind of on that side as well). It doesn't even necessarily mean you're particularly kinky either, because there are plenty of kinky people who balk at the idea of things that I'd find fairly innocuous like, say, foot worship because they don't find it particularly hot.
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[personal profile] sarillia 2015-03-27 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
It probably also helps that I prefer a more fun attitude to trying to be all intense and everything, so if we end up giggling and can't take it seriously, that's cool too.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-27 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
Well if you wanted to write Call of Duty I would absolutely tell you to get your ass to the range.

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-03-27 05:07 am (UTC)(link)
Eh, sure, only if I actually wanted to write about combat though.

That said, I think it's really stupid to tell someone to have sex before they write porn, because porn is so idealized anyway.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-03-27 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't seem to read it that way. more like: look, you seem to really like this thing in fiction, and it's not unrealistic to get it, so why not try it?

If you seemed to be really into shooting games, it wouldn't be far out to actually go to a shooting range at least once in your life;