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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-31 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3009 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3009 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Peggy Carter]


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03.
[Robin Hobb]


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04.
[Fossil Fighters: Frontier]


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05.
[Katie Holmes/Jamie Foxx]


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06.
[Infinite Jest]


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07.
(Harry Potter)


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08.
[Hellsing]


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09.
[Grimm]


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10.
[CLC/CrystaL Clear]


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11.
[Stargate Universe]


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12.
[Doctor Who]


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13.
[Robin Hood (BBC)]


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14.
[Tales from the Borderlands]


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15.
[Great British Bake Off]


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16.
[The Cure]


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17.
[Top Gear]


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18.
[The X-Files]


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19.
[Ron Perlman/Hannibal Chau, Pacific Rim]


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20.
(One Direction, Zayn Malik)


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21.
[Doctor Who]


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22.
[bokura no negai]


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23.
[Gunnerkrigg Court]









Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 071 secrets from Secret Submission Post #430.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Family Drama: Update

(Anonymous) 2015-04-01 08:48 am (UTC)(link)
LOL. Not all men are emotional cripples because of their upbringing. Not to mention that these social and cultural values that prevent real manly men from asking other men for emotional support should also prevent them from asking other men for money. And yet, OP's brother manages to fight the patriarchy long enough to get a financial handout!

So yeah, I don't put much stock in your theory, and it's nothing to do with a 2D black and white world. When people hit up relatives for money over and over again and blow it irresponsibly only to ask for more and use emotional blackmail if they're not indulged, they're NOT poor little misunderstood snowflakes.

I'm guessing that at one time or another, you needed financial help from a relative and this situation is hitting a sensitive spot. What you're failing to grasp is that the message isn't "Asking for help is bad!" but "Taking advantage of your loved ones is bad!"

This isn't really about you, you see.

Re: Family Drama: Update

(Anonymous) 2015-04-01 09:50 am (UTC)(link)
No actually, I've been on the other end of this life you've imagined for me.