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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-04 03:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #3013 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3013 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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TW: discussion of panic attacks and sexual assault

[personal profile] were_lemur 2015-04-05 06:40 am (UTC)(link)
Unlike books or movies where I can go to spoiler sites and find out if there is something that will leave me hyperventilating my way through a panic attack, there's no reliable, all-encompassing source for that information for fanfic.

It isn't about being squicked, it isn't about being upset by immoral things, it's about being viscerally reminded of how it felt to be held down with an arm across my throat, so I couldn't fight.

By the time I'm triggered, it's too late to backbutton or scroll past.

If you don't understand how people might want to avoid reliving being raped (or being shot at, or beaten, or watching someone die, or whatever the traumatic experience was) then maybe you should go away and live in a bubble until you learn some basic empathy.

People with triggers know that bad shit happens in the real world.

We've lived through it.

Re: TW: discussion of panic attacks and sexual assault

(Anonymous) 2015-04-05 07:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Even as late as the early 1990s people couldn't just look at "spoiler sites", yet miraculously people didn't need to clamor for freakin' trigger warnings on books. (even newspaper book reviews couldn't cover every book out there nor could they necessarily be as comprehensive as reading a book for oneself)

Re: TW: discussion of panic attacks and sexual assault

(Anonymous) 2015-04-06 05:28 am (UTC)(link)
So because things sucked worse for people with PTSD in the past, that means that we shouldn't work on making things suck less now?

By that logic, we're all wasting our time with things like newfangled motorcars and sanitation.