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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-05 03:44 pm

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sarillia: (Default)

Re: Complain here

[personal profile] sarillia 2015-04-05 09:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Today hasn't been great.

My friend was hitting on me earlier. I have another friend who does that all the time but he's just a giant flirt and it doesn't mean anything so I just make fun of him; when he says I have a voice like a siren I ask if it's more like an ambulance or a police car. But this other friend today was dead serious and it was really awkward.

A few hours later I got really sick. I was more nauseous than I've been in years and I could actually feel all the blood rushing to my stomach and I was afraid I was going to pass out.

Can I just do this day over?

Re: Complain here

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-04-05 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Tell your friend to quit that bullshit or you're not going to stay friends for long.

Trust me, we're thick as shit unless you spell it out for us. Chances are he'll mistake being nice (or saying nothing) as reciprocation.
sarillia: (Default)

Re: Complain here

[personal profile] sarillia 2015-04-05 09:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't really want to turn it into an ultimatum but it's definitely time to be more forceful.

Re: Complain here

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-04-05 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Well I hope it works out. It's not acceptable for anyone to think they have the right to make you feel uncomfortable, friend or no.
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Complain here

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-04-06 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
I can't tell if you're being completely serious here, but it'd be kinda sad if I felt like I had more faith in your own gender than you do.

Re: Complain here

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-04-06 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
It's not that I don't have faith in men to do the right thing, I just don't usually have faith in them being able to take a hint.

We're not socialized to take hints, we're socialized to be "persistent".
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Complain here

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-04-06 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
ok but I would argue that being socialized a certain way (and I absolutely agree that men are socialized that way) =/= being dense. but if you were just being facetious, then carry on
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: Complain here

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-04-05 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
That is really annoying. And yeah, I know the difference well - in a way people who flirt with everyone are sort of non-threatening, ironically, because you know they're not fixated on you.

Hope you feel better soon!
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Complain here

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-04-06 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
Same. People who flirt with everyone are (often) funny and I can banter with them.

Re: Complain here

(Anonymous) 2015-04-05 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Did you get checked out at a hospital, blood taken? Because it sounds like your "other friend" may have roofied you.
sarillia: (Default)

Re: Complain here

[personal profile] sarillia 2015-04-05 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
It didn't happen in person, thankfully. That would have been even more uncomfortable. I'm just really sensitive to changes in blood pressure.

Re: Complain here

(Anonymous) 2015-04-05 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
*googles that*

Woah, you were not kidding

http://nobullying.com/roofied-symptoms/

Re: Complain here

(Anonymous) 2015-04-05 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Always be suspicious if you suddenly feel ill after someone tries to pick you up.

Re: Complain here

(Anonymous) 2015-04-05 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I will :(