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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-05 03:44 pm

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Re: Lesbian Separatists

(Anonymous) 2015-04-06 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
You tend to support people you love, dude. Nobody made me. I rarely disagreed mind. I'm no longer thus constrained.

Re: Lesbian Separatists

(Anonymous) 2015-04-06 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
If I disagree with someone I love, I don't stay silent or pretend to agree in order to "support" them, and I don't expect them to do that either. Sorry, that's just really weird to me.

Re: Lesbian Separatists

(Anonymous) 2015-04-06 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
I really think you misunderstood what I said? Also please kept in mind that this is a fucking fandom message board so these aren't exactly matters of great importance where I'm violating my principles.

Re: Lesbian Separatists

(Anonymous) 2015-04-06 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
IDK using the word 'obligated' made it come off like it wasn't voluntary?
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Re: Lesbian Separatists

[personal profile] chardmonster 2015-04-06 05:08 am (UTC)(link)
I think we have different definitions of what "obligated" means.

For example: I'm obligated to be polite; I'm a jerk if I'm not. But there is no rule saying I must say please and thank you. I do so because I don't want to be a jerk. I am obligated not to be a jerk. But not being a jerk is still voluntary.

Me arguing with Noodle doesn't mean I'm not "over it." It means I no longer have a reason to have discussions with him in private rather than on a forum. I am no longer obligated to shield him from weird anons claiming that any disagreement is drama. I was never somehow forced to agree with him on the internet.
Edited 2015-04-06 05:16 (UTC)

Re: Lesbian Separatists

(Anonymous) 2015-04-06 03:44 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt

Ah, I that clears that up. I too took the word "obligated" as the antonym of "voluntarily".
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Re: Lesbian Separatists

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-04-06 04:45 pm (UTC)(link)
to be fair, it's kind of bad form to argue with your SO loudly in public

Re: Lesbian Separatists

(Anonymous) 2015-04-06 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's bad form to argue loudly with ANYONE in public. But I don't think that disagreeing with someone necessarily means you're "arguing loudly" with someone. It's quite possible to have a civil disagreement, and I don't think people should feel they can't civilly disagree with their SO when around other people. I find that idea creepy, honestly. A couple is still two individuals, they're not a hive mind. And they shouldn't be expected to be.

Re: Lesbian Separatists

(Anonymous) 2015-04-07 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
It's kind of funny Noodles ignored her, too...