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fandomsecrets2015-04-05 03:44 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-04-05 03:44 pm
[ SECRET POST #3014 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3014 ⌋
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Nope. I'm just not ashamed of it. We all have our issues and flaws and all we can do is work to improve on them.
I don't know why I thought I could get through to you that you are, in fact, unlikable. D
Oh, *now* who's being patronizing? You assume I don't know I'm generally unlikeable. I do know that I am--I can see the evidence.
Do you even have any friends?
Yep! I'm definitely not for everyone, but I'm still compatible with some wonderful people ♥
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This doesn't make any sense to me. We ALL have flaws, and generally people are at least a little bit ashamed when their flaws hurt others. I know I am.
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Behavior comes from somewhere, and whether it's from environmental factors or inborn traits, all you can do is work to change it. Am I ashamed when I fail to act in a way that conforms with the standards of behavior I've set for myself? Yes. Am I ashamed of having the innate flaws that I have to work against? No.
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(Anonymous) 2015-04-06 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
But why be ashamed of traits? Traits do not guarantee action. For instance, being a pessimist is a trait. Expressing the hopelessness of a friend's job search over and over again is a behavior. The latter is harmful and was a choice, an action. The former was not.
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(Anonymous) 2015-04-06 06:31 pm (UTC)(link)