[ SECRET POST #3014 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3014 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[lb_lee]

Actually, even when I was mostly ace, what slapped ME in the face about it was that I was a rape survivor. GUESS WHAT MY RAPISTS ALWAYS TOLD ME. It took my husband FOREVER to persuade me otherwise.

I feel really lucky that I somehow have apparently never encountered actual sex positive people who are like this. (My rapists were NOT. They were chauvinist rapey assholes. They wouldn't know feminism or social justice if it bit them on the asses.)

--Rogan

[diet_poison]

Now I kinda want to know what they said to you (that you weren't really ace??) because I feel like I'm missing something really obvious. If you don't want to talk about it no worries. Sorry for not completely understanding what you're getting at.

[lb_lee]

Enh, my primary rapist argued that sex was a need. My desire NOT to have sex had equal importance as his desire TO have sex, ergo the only fair thing was for me to get raped half the time. He also framed it as "training," so I would eventually learn to accept my own "need" for his cock. (Because sex was a need, so I MUST have had it somewhere, he just needed to break down the social training that made me think I didn't!)

So yeah, the whole, "sex is a NEED" thing is a VERY sore point with me.

--Rogan

[diet_poison]

oh. ohhhhhh.

Wow. What a... ok, I honestly can't come up with a potent enough insult.

:(

[lb_lee]

Well, yeah. He was a statutory rapist. Not exactly known for his morality, common decency, or logic. It fucked my head up for a good while, though; for the longest time, I believed that bullshit and it took my husband FOREVER to get me to realize he didn't want to rape me. (This is not intended to look badly on my husband. It was just by that point rape was what I figured was part of being a human, and I could be a volunteer or a victim.)

--Rogan