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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-05 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3014 ]


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(Anonymous) 2015-04-06 06:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe it'd be more productive to think less in terms of argument, and more in terms of conversation or discourse?
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[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-04-06 07:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe it'd be more productive to think less in terms of argument, and more in terms of conversation or discourse?

I didn't think of it as an argument. To be honest, I thought of it as educating people. I realize now that that's uh, amazingly condescending of me. I will try to mentally frame it as a conversation or discussion, both of which equalize the participants.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-06 07:21 pm (UTC)(link)
But the thing is that even an outlook of educating people can be fine, because there are times when one really does know more about something. The key I think is having an outlook of compassion, rather than treating it as a failure for the other person not to already know everything.