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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-06 06:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #3015 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3015 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Puzzle & Dragons (Japanese Mobile Phone game)]


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03.
[Thunderbirds]


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04.
[Avenged Sevenfold]


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05.
[Umineko no Naku Koro ni]


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06.
(Donald Tusk, President Of The European Council)


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07.
[The Hobbit]


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08.
[Nicholas Lea]


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09.
[Vocaloid]


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10.
[Grimm/Angel]


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11.
(the Tale of the Princess Kaguya)


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12.
[Jimmy Carr and Sarah Millican]


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13.
[The Phantom of the Opera]


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14.
[How to get away with murder/Liza Weil]


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15.
[Once Upon a Time]


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16.
[Inazuma Eleven]


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17.
(Aiden Turner in Poldark)


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18.
[Star Trek: Into Darkness]


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19.
[Nathan Fillion]


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20.
[Harry Potter]


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21.
[Sherlock]


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22.
[MCU/The Avengers (film series)]


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23.
[Gillian Anderson]









Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 106 secrets from Secret Submission Post #431.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-07 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
No, actually, I would say all of that. I once dated a farmer and it was obvious we weren't going to work out. I get that a lot of people are really open-minded, good for them, but I need a lot of common ground in order for a relationship to work out. The idea of having a relationship with someone who has vastly different values in things that I value would be impossible. See my initial comment: I value sex, therefore, I wouldn't date an asexual. It's important to me that my partner is monosexual; not so important that they like pistachios, etc., etc.

Also I'm only using personal instances here, but both bisexuals I knew ended up so much happier with bisexuals. So yeah, I think it is a valid category. I don't have distrust of them, just wouldn't want to date them and I wish people like you would consider my reasons for not wanting to date a bisexual as valid as my not wanting to date an asexual. I've literally never been called close-minded for wanting to fuck, but for not wanting to fuck a bisexual? Or a black guy? Jesus, it's like we're not allowed to have preferences anymore. Just like how you're allowed to seek "X" (however specific X is, depending on how picky you are), I'm allowed to exclude it.

Sorry if your comment was meant to be in jest, it's just very close to how I thought! Guess I'm the idiot in the "don't pretend to be stupid lest you attract actual idiots" here....

(Anonymous) 2015-04-07 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
are u trolling...

(Anonymous) 2015-04-07 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
"Sorry if your comment was meant to be in jest, it's just very close to how I thought"

Maybe that should make you think then, instead of desperately defending your attitudes like a butt hurt idiot.
lb_lee: A happy little brain with a bandage on it, enclosed within a circle with the words LB Lee. (oplz)

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-04-07 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
not wanting to fuck a bisexual? Or a black guy? Jesus, it's like we're not allowed to have preferences anymore.

Well, MY preference is not to hear about how all bisexuals or black men are homogenous hive mind entities. So you see, we both have preferences and are allowed to express them, and also declare them full of shit.

--Rogan
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-04-07 06:47 am (UTC)(link)
you can date or not date whoever you want but if you actually believe bi people are more likely to cheat by virtue of being bi then holy shit, you are ignorant.

being bi doesn't mean you simultaneously crave male and female sexual partners. it means you are CAPABLE of being attracted to both men and women.
Edited 2015-04-07 06:48 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2015-04-07 12:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Your reasons for not wanting to date a bisexual person aren't valid. They're based on an incorrect idea of what "bisexual" means. If your preferences are based on a bunch of bullshit, irrational, and bigoted assumptions, then people get to call you on them.

And yes, you're an idiot if you couldn't tell that that post wasn't a serious list of actual traits, considering the entire last paragraph was about being treated like shit for being bi. Speaking of that last paragraph, I wonder how many bi people you've dated without realizing it? There's a lot of us who are very firmly ion the closet because pic attitudes like yours. Many of your monogamous relationships might very well have been with people who are attracted to both genders, and you just never knew.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-07 12:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Jesus Christ, it's like I'm really on /lgbt/.