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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-08 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #3017 ]


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Re: May-December relationships

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-04-08 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh wow. How did that happen? (and at least they're not 30 years apart)

Re: May-December relationships

(Anonymous) 2015-04-08 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
They met at a party. My mom was in her 20s and my dad was in his 40s. I was born when my mother was in her early 30s and my dad was in his 50s.

I guess it works for them, but I wouldn't be able to deal with the patronizing attitude my dad tends to have from someone I'm in a relationship with. I don't need to be in a relationship with someone who assumes they are in a position of authority over me and then gets exasperated (I cannot STAND exasperation) or angry when I don't just "obey." I know my mom doesn't like having to choose between just doing what he wants whether she likes it or not, and facing his nastiness if she doesn't.

Re: May-December relationships

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-04-08 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Yikes. That just sounds like a relationship problem regardless of the age gap. Sorry to hear that, anon.

Re: May-December relationships

(Anonymous) 2015-04-09 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
My parents are six months apart in age and my dad behaves in the exact same way.

That sounds like a massive control issue with him more than the age gap (though the same issue might explain why he chose someone so much younger that he thought he could exert that control over.)

Re: May-December relationships

(Anonymous) 2015-04-09 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
That's not an age difference thing man, that's a douchecanoe thing.

Re: May-December relationships

(Anonymous) 2015-04-09 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, my dad treats my mom the same way and they're only a few years apart. I think it has more to do with an individual's issues than a certain type of relationship.

Re: May-December relationships

(Anonymous) 2015-04-09 03:43 am (UTC)(link)
Another comment for that's not an age gap issue, it's an issue with your dad being a douche. One of my best friends is a few years older than her husband, and he's very similar.