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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-10 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3019 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3019 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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30. [ WARNING for suicide ]



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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #431.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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blitzwing: ([magi] Jafar)

Re: /rant

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-04-11 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, that's one of those things you're supposed to think but not say, isn't it?
insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

Re: /rant

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2015-04-11 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
aw man what did I miss

Re: /rant

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
Blitzwing basically said dating male feminists was a bad idea.

Re: /rant

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
Because?

There's two very different reasons I see thrown up, curious which one she went with.

Re: /rant

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
She never said why, just to never do it.
insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

Re: /rant

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2015-04-11 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
aw man, this could have gotten really good if it wasn't culled early. 7/10 blitzwing!

Re: /rant

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-04-11 05:14 am (UTC)(link)
lol maybe. I don't know if I'm really up for arguing about why I'm not actually evil and trying to use my feminism to get into anyone's pants/why good feminism isn't just a female-specific issue tonight.

Maybe if you catch me on another night though.
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: /rant

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-04-11 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
...wow, what?

As opposed to dating guys who aren't feminists? I know which one I'd prefer

Re: /rant

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
Seriously tho

interested why you think that.

/not radfem anon

Re: /rant

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
not blizty, but i'll take a shot

biggest issue with dudes who are adamant about being male feminists (this is different from dudes who happen to support gender equality) is that it isn't really their battle to fight, so it comes off as having unsavory motives

Re: /rant

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
See, you can say that, or you can say "feminism benefits men too" but you're not allowed to say both.

Re: /rant

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
Nayrt

I think it's justifiable as long as you confine it to, very specifically, men for whom feminism is a huge part of their identity. Push it beyond that and you have definite problems in that area.
blitzwing: ([magi] Jafar)

Re: /rant

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-04-11 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
It doesn't really matter. It's based off of my personal experiences and observations, and thus is worthless.

The comment was meant to be comforting to the OP, but in retrospect it was probably inappropriate and would not have had the intended effect.
Edited 2015-04-11 03:28 (UTC)

Re: /rant

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Idk if it would be worthless, since I doubt you're the only one whose had those experiences. Though I do agree that this might not be the time or place for that discussion.

Re: /rant

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
Do you actually think that your statement was wrong
blitzwing: ([magi] Jafar)

Re: /rant

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-04-11 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
It doesn't matter if I think it's right or wrong, it's not based on any hard data, so there's no way to argue in good faith that it's correct and true. That doesn't make it wrong but it makes it a conjecture, so there's nowhere to go with it and it accomplishes nothing (in this context).

From the data I have now I believe I am right, but I'm operating from a very limited amount of knowledge (experiences and accounts I have personally observed). I would prefer to undertake actual research on the issue if I was going to speak definitively about it to others (hence my deletion of my poorly-thought-out comment). It appears that there actually is a fair amount on research on things such as marriage and feminism, and male feminists.

Re: /rant

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
This only makes me more interested.

Come ooooon.

What'd ya say?

Re: /rant

(Anonymous) 2015-04-11 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
Someone already told another anon up thread.