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⌈ Secret Post #3023 ⌋

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Comments

Re: My sister's planning to visit...and I'm stressed

[herpymcderp]

Then... it seems like she really would be the best person to turn to in your situation, and maybe one of the most understanding people as well.

Everyone goes through rough times, OP. You don't have to be ashamed of the fact that you are at the moment, you just have to realize that when that happens it's okay to admit it and turn to others for help and advice.

Whether or not you want to use family for that or talk to someone else, I think it's something you need to think about if a simple family visit is causing you this much emotional discomfort.

Re: My sister's planning to visit...and I'm stressed

[(Anonymous)]

I just wouldn't feel comfortable burdening her like that. I know she went through a phase where she was cutting and probably suicidal. I know she seems to be doing a lot better now (and I am happy for her despite how ashamed I am when I look at my life in comparison) but I don't want to unload my problems on her and risk having her backslide because of me.

And, like I said, we're not all that close anymore. The last time I visited her, I got the sense that I bored her and she just wanted me leave. She didn't say anything but the way she was acting made it kind of obvious.

Re: My sister's planning to visit...and I'm stressed

[herpymcderp]

Well in that case, it might make sense just to see a counsellor or a psychologist at school to have a talk. Specific counsellors can recommend practical solutions or just be there to listen, and in most Universities a certain number of therapy sessions are part of the student health plan so there's no cost to you.

Either way, if the stress is too much to handle there are people to help.