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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-14 07:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #3023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3023 ⌋

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[personal profile] dancing_clown 2015-04-15 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think it's dishonesty if age isn't a thing that's been brought up. Sure, if the friend had expressed some sort of fear or discomfort of older people, it's dishonest and disingenuous of OP to not disclose their age.

But otherwise? Am I being dishonest with you by not telling you my age? My job? My race? No, I'm not. Because it's irrelevant, until you tell me it's not. Right now we're just two people talking about a secret. Or in OP's case, two people squeeing over a fandom.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-15 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
But we're not in a friendship, are we? We're two strangers on the internet. We have no emotional attachment. We have no bonds of trust.

When you're beginning to term the other person a friend, then the relationship shifts and a certain level of trust and honesty comes into play. Then, things about both parties become relevant in order to allow both to make informed choices about where the relationship goes.