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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-17 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #3026 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3026 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Time Team]


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(Transformers: Windblade)


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[Sesame Street]


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(Transformers: More than Meets the Eye)


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(Transformers: Robots in Disguise 2015)


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16. [ SPOILERS for Aldnoah.Zero ]



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17. [ SPOILERS for Classic Who ]



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18. [ SPOILERS for Inuyasha ]



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19. [ WARNING for abuse, suicide ]



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20. [ WARNING for abuse ]












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Transcript by OP

[personal profile] fscom 2015-04-17 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm an abuse victim with serious anger issues who is still learning to not lash out. I identify with Anthy because she is an abuse victim who DOESN'T remain ~sweet and pure~ after being treated like shit for so long.

So it hurts a lot to see the fandom insist that she's helpless and blameless 'BECAUSE AKIO!!!111': for me, it denies what makes her meaningful and upholds crappy stereotypes about abuse.

(Secret because I've been called 'liar' and 'abuse apologist' for this. Not taking any chances.)
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Re: Transcript by OP

[personal profile] quirkytizzy 2015-04-18 04:29 am (UTC)(link)
Same. It often shocks people to see just how angry I still get, decades later, about it all. It infuriates me that the only way to be a good abuse survivor is to be full of sweetness, "lessons", and forgiveness. I always wonder if it's worse for me because I'm a woman and people DOUBLE expect that we shouldn't be pissed off or have to learn how to not lash out.

Sometimes the road to peace isn't filled with light and sweetness. It's filled with a lot of cursing, rage, and and absolutely unapologetic attitude towards the anger. Hear hear.