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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-04-17 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #3026 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3026 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Transformers: Windblade)


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(Transformers: More than Meets the Eye)


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19. [ WARNING for abuse, suicide ]



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(Anonymous) 2015-04-18 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
That's not what OP said at all. They just said they bonded with someone else over darkfic precisely because they were both depressed and self-loathing, but now that OP is feeling better about themselves while the other person remains depressed.

I know that feeling too. I used to hate the world and myself and it was great to find other people to be cynical with, but when you don't feel that way anymore then being around those kinds of people is just draining and makes you feel bad about being happy for yourself.

OP is implying friendship should be mutually beneficial and supportive, not one-sided coddling that apparently nobody is feeling good about.

(Anonymous) 2015-04-18 06:15 am (UTC)(link)
What friendship is always mutually beneficial and supportive all the time? Even if you have two people who do not mental illness there are times when it's an imbalanced give and take.

Also this is completely 100% from OP pov, so you can't say ~nobody's feeling good about it~ Who knows what depressed friend thinks.